So often, we feel torn between striving for change and surrendering to what is. In meditation—and in life—we can get stuck trying too hard, or give up entirely.
In this talk, I explore how to find a wise balance between deliberate intention and choiceless awareness, and how to grow lasting inner strengths like compassion, kindness, joy, and equanimity. These are qualities we can practice—not just admire.
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Talk: Compassion, Kindness, Joy, and Equanimity
Key points:
00:00 – The Balance of Choicelessness and Intention
06:27 – Letting In vs. Letting Go
11:48 – Four Radiant Qualities of the Heart
13:56 – Compassion Isn’t Collapsing
19:46 – Joy Without Comparison
27:35 – What Equanimity Really Means
36:30 – Which One Speaks to You Today?
A Meditation: Deep Calm
